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How to reply when she says "we'll see"

Verdict first

"We'll see" isn't a no. It's "impress me" — or "if nothing better comes up". Your job is to make the plan so easy and specific that saying yes is the path of least resistance.

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Translation from her to plain English

Usually one of two things: your invite was too vague to say yes to, or you're not a priority yet. Both are fixable — but not by asking again in the same words.

Make it concrete

Swap "sometime" for a day, a time and a place. Give her an easy out so the yes feels free:

If she dodges again

Send the third line above and go quiet. Interested women come back with a day. Chasing a second "maybe" only lowers your value.

Verdict

Don't wait for her plans — become the plan.

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