How to reply when she texts "wyd"
Verdict first
"wyd" is her opening the door without having to think of a topic. Don't answer "nothing much, wbu". Say what you're actually doing, add a little color, and hand her something to react to.
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What "wyd" means
She's bored, curious, or thinking about you and wants an easy way in. Late at night it can also be a feeler for plans. Either way, she started it — that's a good sign.
What to send
Real answer, a bit of personality, a question or an invite:
What not to send
"nm wbu" — it's a dead end that bounces the work back to her. And don't invent an exciting life to impress her; a boring evening told well beats a fake one.
Verdict
She opened the door. Walk through it with a real answer.
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