She ghosted me — what now?
Ghosting is an answer, just a cowardly one. Send one light message at most, then put your energy where it's returned.
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Why it happens
She met someone else, lost interest, felt awkward saying no, or just got overwhelmed. You'll rarely find out which — and you don't need to.
One last message, if you want
If you want to close the loop, keep it short and blame-free. No essays, no "was it something I said?"
What not to do
No paragraph of feelings, no asking her friends, no watching her stories for clues. Every bit of chasing hurts you more than her silence did.
If she comes back
Ghosts sometimes reappear weeks later with "hey stranger". Be friendly, but let her prove she's back: invite her out once. If she dodges again, you have your answer twice.
Silence is a reply. Read it and move on.
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