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She says "I'm bad at texting"

Verdict first

Sometimes it's true — and then the fix is simple: text less, meet more. If she's "bad at texting" but never free to meet either, she's not bad at texting. She's just not that into it.

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How to tell

Bad texter, still interested: slow replies, but warm ones, and she says yes when you suggest a plan.

Not interested: slow, short replies and vague answers to every invite. She texts other people fine.

What to send

Take her at her word and skip the pen-pal phase:

What not to do

Don't keep feeding the chat to prove you're fun. Long one-sided conversations make you look more invested than she is.

Verdict

Bad at texting is fine. Bad at making plans is the answer.

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