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How to tell if she likes you over text

Verdict first

Ignore emojis and reply times. Look at investment: does she ask you questions, start conversations and say yes to plans? That's the whole test.

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Signs that matter

She asks about you instead of just answering. She texts first sometimes. She remembers small details. And most of all — she moves toward meeting, or happily agrees when you suggest it.

Signs guys overthink

Exact reply times, how many "ha"s she typed, a smiley or no smiley. These depend on the person and her mood. Reading into them is how a perfectly normal chat turns into an investigation.

Warning signs

Short answers that never come back with a question, conversations you always start, and dodged invites. Any one of them can be a fluke. All three together is an answer.

The real test

Ask her out, concretely. Interest shows up as a yes or a counter-offer. "Maybe sometime" with no alternative is a polite no.

Verdict

Interest is effort. Count the effort, not the emojis.

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