Should I double text her?
Verdict first
Double texting is fine once, after some time, with something new. It's needy when it's fast, repeated, or asks why she hasn't answered.
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When it's fine
She went quiet mid-conversation, a day or more has passed, and you have something new to say. Life happens — sometimes she just forgot to reply.
When it's needy
Following up within hours, sending "hello?" or "??", or a third and fourth message. Each extra text moves you from interested to anxious.
What to send
Not a reminder of what she didn't answer — a fresh, easy topic:
After the double text
If she answers warmly, carry on like nothing happened — no "finally!". If she doesn't, stop. The silence is the answer.
Verdict
One fresh follow-up, never a reminder. Then the ball is hers.
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